Ya, I don't mind the patch. I feel that the dev's really did think it all through so everything has a pretty good balance.
Even the wine consumption - I'm not overly worried - we now harvest 2x the wine, and island upgrades are inexpensive, so I'm going to focus on getting my vineyard upgraded a couple more levels.
Same with the more expensive upgrades - the increased production sort of balances that - I believe time will show us that. We're just suffering from sticker-shock. LOL My husband was laughing at me because I was trying to explain the new features and he exclaimed that "Inflation even reaches Ikariam"
I think the most important thing right now is to make sure you're well defended against attacks - have super-high hideouts and keep your spies at home whenever possible (of course if you have a couple on long-term missions that should be fine, but keep most on defense)
You can still be an undesirable target. I don't know about you guys, but when I try to send a spy out, and the risk of them being caught before they even get to try a mission is 95% - I STAY THE HELL AWAY from them! What I usually do is first do my own spying by checking their military score, and if it's not high I send the spies, but if my spies can't get the info I probably wont attack anyways, because who knows where their military is!
In short, to avoid most attacks, have a decent military score - 1000 is pretty respectable (or at least it
was before the update, and make it near impossible to spy you out.
PS. The lost research was because technically we all "owed" research points for the new researches.